Sex - how to stop your addiction. Sexual sin has serious consequences!
We know that sex is a gift from God, that it's reserved for marriage and is sacred.
The ironic thing is that Christians still ask very strange questions about sex. I mean it doesn't take a genius to know what is expected and not.
I wanted to find out what exactly Christians are searching for online and I found some astonishing stuff.
Here's a few examples Christians search for:
* christian sex pictures
* christian sex video
* christian group sex
* christian sex stories
* christian how to get my wife to want initiate sex
* christian sex party
* christian sex accounts
* teaching christian sex pictures
* a christian sex site login
* christian sex stores
It is almost impossible to believe that Christians would search these words. On the other hand the Bible does say that our wrestle is not against flesh and blood, but principalities, powers and the rulers of this world. We also know that we are in a constant war with our flesh and we need to constantly be aware of the temptations of our flesh.
This is serious people.
The choices we make today is going to have serious effects on the generations to come after us! It is so easy for the secular world to give in to their lustful desires.
Lets look at a few of these searches that Christians make online.
Christian Sex Pictures, christian sex videos
Sex is intimate and private.
Not for public viewing nor anyone other than your spouse.
Treat it sacred and you will be rewarded with an intense and unusual love for your spouse.
Christian group sex, christian sex party
Sex is a soul binding act.
Whenever you have sex, it ties you to that person. This causes a person to become attached to the other and as soon as one decides to break it off, the other cannot handle it. It might look like their fine, but isn't really.
This also leads to feelings of rejection, emotional scars, feelings if worthlessness and a low self image. It opens doers for failed relationships as well as a generational curse.
Gen 2:24
"... a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."
Have you ever noticed how children tend to follow in their parents footsteps?
Not because they want to, but because their parents decided for them a long time ago. Just look คลิปโป้ at people you know. When parents have failed marriages the children tend to have the same.
This is true for other areas of your lives as well like health. Patterns in the generational lines. This is a curse brought upon children because of choice that parents made. This is serious my friend.
Just look at the facts:
All these curses and problems we bring upon our precious children because of selfish desires. All it takes is for you to give in to your temptations (always fleshly in nature) and your children suffer the consequences years down the line. Stop reasoning that I will repent and God will forgive me.
Yes He will, but remember 'GOD'S GRACE ISN'T CHEAP'.
What you sow you will reap.
If you bring a curse upon yourself and your generations to come, you are gonna have some serious work to do to break that curse! It is a constant battle and your children will also have a battle to fight because of your selfishness. Just look around you. There is enough evidence to believe that this is true.
What you need to do:
Everything starts with a decision.
You need to make a conscious, clear and serious decision that you want to change this situation. Without this you will stay exactly where you are. How will you know that you are serious about changing this? Talk to someone you know you can trust and ask them to pray with you.
Start to seek God everyday.
I found that there is so many Christians who struggle in this area of their lives. The sad thing is they are too shy to talk about it. Do you know what? There is a good chance that the next person feels exactly like you do. They feel that you are this giant and they can't approach you.
From my experience I notices that if I make a decision to seek God first thing in the morning, I have a totally different perspective on everything the whole day. I am more awake (spiritually), sharper and my thoughts are much clearer. Yes, it won't be easy.
Especially in the Winter season, but the rewards will far outweigh the sacrifice. Remember your flesh is subjected to the spirit! Now this is going to take some time. Don't expect that your feelings or anything else will quickly change. It's a process. Work at it.
Jeremiah 33:1
"Call to me and I will answer and show you great and mighty things which you do not know"
Be accountable to someone.
You need to get someone trustworthy (a born again christian) to keep you accountable. The most dangerous place for anyone to be is on his/her own.
If ever you feel weak, pick up the phone and make that call.
Proverbs 18:1
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"A man who isolates himself seeks his own desires, he rages against all wise judgment."
Stay away from temptation.
You know exactly were to find it! So make a decision to not put yourself in a position where it will be easily available to you. If you're in it's face, TURN AROUND AND RUN as fast as you can.
Genesis 39:11-12
... when Joseph went into the house to do his work, and none of the men of the house was inside, that she caught him by his garment, saying,"Lie with me". But he let his garment in her hand, and fled and ran outside."
We need to run away from temptation. There is nothing wrong with being tempted, but meditating and giving in is the problem. Remember when you give in, you have to start all over again!
The only people who will get hurt by your selfishness is yourself, your spouse (even your future spouse if you're not married), your kids, your families, your friends, your church, the world you need to reach for Jesus and your character.
So you should ask yourself if it's worth it. Do these people mean anything to you? If yes, you should fight with every part of your being.